Does anyone besides me think that it goes from sixty-some days before Christmas to eighteen in the blink of an eye? One day Christmas is two months away, and suddenly we're thinking we should have been doing more, sooner. Time. Its passing can be quite varied. Waiting for something special and it drags. I remember being six weeks from my due date with Matt and thinking it might as well be a year, it seemed so far off. And now he's forty-five!! Then there are times when we are sure that it goes at mach speed it goes so fast. (See those forty-five years!)
Ah well, Christmas will come and I will be ready. Actually, I'm pretty much ready except for baking and wrapping presents, most of which have been purchased. I do, however, need to spend some time on the internet this afternoon finishing up.
Day before yesterday, in need of new reading material, I took myself to the overflowing bookshelves in our family room and reached for a favorite. Winter Solstice by Rosamunde Pilcher. I have no idea how many times I've read it, but a dozen is probably not far off. I love her writing. Some people dismiss them as "romance novels", but they are, I think completely missing the true essence of her writing, which is hearth and home. Pilcher is British and all her novels, as well as short stories, take place in the UK. She does a wonderful job of pulling the reader into the setting of her stories. I often tell people that if they are looking for a long, delicious read, check out Rosamunde Pilcher. And all those British terms! Members of our family have taken to calling the garbage truck the dustbin lorry, and the garbage can the wheelie bin. Then there's the gritting lorry. Such fun words!! Anyway, Winter Solstice is a Christmas story and curling up with it is like visiting, once again, with an old and very dear friend and it's become a holiday tradition with me.
I must say that I am kind of an Anglophile. If ever I travel to Europe, the UK is where I would go first. I recently discovered another British author, Jane Brockett, while reading the blog Jenny of Elefanz. Jennifer Reynolds, its author, is Australian, and discovered Brockett's nonfiction book, The Gentle Art of Domesticity, and recommended it to her readers. Jenny is a homebody, wife and mother of grown children, and the book inspired her to embrace her life and make no apologies.

I decided I wanted to read it myself and so ordered a copy in early fall. When it came, I was somewhat disappointed as I looked through it. Brockett's style, decorating, colors, etc., are nothing like mine. But when I began reading, I discovered her feelings and thoughts about home and family were very much like mine. She knits, she bakes, she quilts, and so on, and she considers these neglected and often derided skills as very valuable. And I learned a important lesson: those of us who love home and hearth may have different styles, but at the end of the day, we embrace the same values. She loves bright and modern and I love classic and traditional. Oh, and Jenny of Elefanz? She loves the pastels and the cottage look.
And on a totally unrelated note, forty-nine years ago right now my sweetheart returned home from a year in Vietnam. So glad he came home and met me and made all my dreams come true!!